A trust in oneself is the best way to develop trust. People ought to befriend them first. This is not to say people are not strong, healthy and always happy. You find many people working in a way that will please other people. Satisfaction comes from pleasing yourself and not others. You will disoriented by negative comments.
People must learn to trust, respect and love themselves. They are used in self-evaluation. Most people transform others into what they are not. The latter makes a person knowledgeable and awesome. This is not to say that people are not strong, healthy and always happy.
Create an instant inner strength as the first step towards building self-love. People who make personal decisions are always respected. They have an independent mind, stand by their decisions, and stick to what their conscious dictates. They do not follow crowd decisions. In life, do not give yourself to people too much but retain an element of consultation with trusted allies.
Respect for short-term agents diminishes with time. Irrespective of what you do, lack of self-confidence develops and you cannot be respected when you fail to make personal decisions however much you please others. An independent mind and personal respect go hand-in-hand. Even in public, do not be afraid to stand tall, share your thoughts and make eye contact with the audience. Mumbling, trailing off and shying off are features of people who do not respect themselves.
It is worthy of people to get off their emotional roller coaster. Compliments are appreciated and remain part of life. People appreciate you attire, dress code and even and even walking style. Do not wake up and plan your day so that you are appreciated. Allow the compliment to be part of your endeavors and not the main agenda. Failure to get an instant comment that is positive you become worried. Self-confidence goes up in their immediately. Your morale depreciates greatly. Your life will be without plans. You will disoriented by negative comments.
Self-love, self-liking, and appreciating yourself will make you a more relaxed person in life. Doing what others like means you are acting in life. However, your actual personality shines when you more relaxed. In life, do not give yourself to people too much but retain an element of consultation with trusted allies. The foundation of any partnership, friendship and business association is trust. Honest people are always respected in the society. All good virtues must be developed and maintained. The nature of humanity is that people are inspired by others who do not go by crowd decisions.